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The Modern English Butler


A changing world

Butlers can be found working in many different arenas. In fact it is only a small minority who work for what we consider to be the nobility or on large British or American estates. Although they may not have the title of "Butler" the functions of these people are much the same if not identical: in private homes and estates yes, but many many more in Hotels, Yachts, Business Clubs, Sporting Clubs, Company Board Rooms. We even know of one who has a 3 year contract working in a Mobile home (RV) combining the positions of Driver, Cook, Waiter and Valet as their employers enjoy their retirement travelling around the American Continent.

Senior Members of the Institute, of all nationalities whether Butlers, Stewards or Maitre d's, chaperons etc. will have excellent service skills including, hospitality, dining and entertaining. They understand Fine furnishings, care of personal possessions - Crystal, china, silver, antiques, artworks and clothing. 

Most have an excellent knowledge of fine cuisine, the rudiments of good nutrition and wine pairing. They may also be trained in a number of other areas including Facilities Management, inventory control, records, status reports, scheduling, researching and staff management.


Here are a few examples of the type of people in Service today. *

a) Jenny, age 36 emphasises how today's Senior Butler role has changed in many respects. She is, without doubt vastly more representative of the expectations of employers these days. One can always find the exception with a few English Estates and romantic employers seeking their personal "Jeeves", however we cannot emphasise enough how many opportunities are being lost, both by employers and service professionals due to limitations engendered by misconceptions and old fashioned ideas.

Here then is the reality:

Jenny comes from events management background and works for a divorced female co-owner of a Yacht manufacturing company in California. Born in Leeds and educated to HND level, she is in every sense a "lifestyle manager" for the whole family. She is not particularly involved with the Business as her employer also has a p.a., however she does need to know a lot about yachts and how to sail them and, of course about teenagers - and how to help them navigate through life! Jenny does not cook or clean at home as she manages a team of 3 others (cook, cleaner and a chauffeur who is her husband who doubles-up as a second Butler and Sommelier on occasions), however she is called upon to cook, clean and even helm on the yacht.

When it comes to large formal occasions Jenny is in appearance only a traditional butler. She wears a uniform and oversees every aspect of service but since most of the staff are brought in, this is where her events management experience is particularly valuable. During these occasions Jenny will deliberately and respectfully downplay any semblance of informality or family friendship. Outside of this, the three children treat her as a member of the Family. To them she's the boss, not a "servant" in the old fashioned sense. She is also very highly valued as a loyal confidant/ personal assistant to their mother.

Jenny works 48-50 hours/week, earns $92,000 annually and has opportunities for significant bonuses. She made $8,000 by simply referring a yacht sale via a fellow butler [household manager] in San Jose and another bonus by teaching him to sail. Her husband works 28 hours/week, earning $37k but is also a Maitre D' at a local restaurant. Now in her fifth year of service, Jenny does not want to have children of her own and if she remains with the family for another 15 years her contract states that she will obtain a Condominium gratis (for her early retirement / career change etc). It also states that she may have 3 weeks annual vacation plus 6 weeks at the end of each 2 years with flights paid to the UK.

We have a saying that "Loyalty and integrity reap gratitude and replace servitude." Jenny demonstrates this admirably and will deserve the bonuses that will come her way!

b) Richard, age 42 is a good example of a modern male butler in a more traditional role. Richard trained as a Hotel Manager and worked for several years at a Dubai Hotel with a large Butling department. He now works for a member of the Aristocracy in the UK. He is the Senior Butler with a staff of 7 and is accountable overall to the Estate Manager. His role could best be described as a mixture of catering and housekeeping management combined with personal valet duties. He wears a traditional uniform at all times when on duty and works closely with the personal assistant to his employer who between them liaise the social and business diary of His Lordship. Richard had a minor breakdown a few years back (in Dubai) and, although he is now in good health has no further career ambitions. A natural progression would perhaps have been to the senior position of Estate Manager (had he wished). He lives off the Estate, works 42 hours per week and is happily married to a woman who owns a successful nannies agency.

c) John, age 56 typifies a disappearing breed (thankfully). John is a pretentious and pompous man whom the family of his employer have come to despise in recent years. He trained via the old school route on an estate in Worcestershire undertaking menial tasks below stairs for several years until deemed worthy enough by his seniors to rise into the presence of the family. The Worcestershire estate has long since been liquidated and John now works for an elderly widow who has several residences. She is somewhat eccentric (to put it mildly) and depends upon him a lot, however the family feel that he dominates her and are concerned about his manipulative manner. John is a bitter man. He has nowhere to retire, no family of his own and unless he inherits something in the Will (there is no reason at all why he should, and this being where the family fears lie) he is headed for a bleak future.


What type of person is best suited and why is there such a shortage?

The type of person? All sorts and from all backgrounds although many will often have had a Military or Hospitality background of some kind. Some will enter service at a low level as trainees although opportunities here are relatively scarce these days; others will attend a training School and head for their first employment with a basic knowledge and a lot of experience to gain. Some people, notably Graduates see Butling as a necessary but enjoyable step on the ladder to an executive position in Estate or Household Management. At the moment there are far too few of them and it is an area of development that we want to encourage. Not everyone will have high ambitions and of course service at all levels is needed.

Why is there such a shortage? We have covered some of this above but to summarise our theory on this we believe there are three main issues.

  • 1) A misconception of what the job really entails and the idea that it's a dead end job - i.e. not many know that Jenny-type jobs are out there and that a progression above this station is entirely possible.

  • 2) The devaluation by society in general toward a Service ethic which is seen as demeaning: "we're all equal now - no servants here", or so it goes. Yes, but we are all serving somebody in one way or another! A Chairman serves his shareholders; a waiter serves at table; a solicitor serves his clients... and so forth.

  • 3) Employers not recognising the benefits, mostly because they have similar misconceptions - i.e. not realising that there are Butlers (Service providing professionals) out there who will bring enormous benefits to their lifestyle... and to their families in turn.

Our ambition is to see the image of Butling brought into the 21st Century and to promote the art of Household Management for the exceptional benefits that it brings to the lives of busy entrepreneurs and industry moguls (i.e. not just to the Aristocracy or upper echelons) - therefore to the fabric of society overall, also for the significant rewards and satisfaction that it can provide for those who enter the profession.

 


The lighter and brighter side:

The Butler as golf caddy is really a "footman" who still drives the buggy!

We know of an employer in Dallas who insists on his Butler/Caddy wearing full uniform on the Golf course for at least the first 3 holes, despite temperatures of 100 degrees plus. He then requires him to strip down to a swimming costume to retrieve his golf ball deliberately driven into a water obstacle. He thinks this is hilarious. It is actually extremely funny to watch, he even calls him "Jeeves the Footman". The Butler doesn't mind and enjoys the $200 bonus given on each occasion. He's earning a fortune; his boss treats him very well in all other ways and, let’s face it sometimes the rich and famous have eccentricities that simply have to be catered to!
 

*Names & places changed for security.

 

 

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